My day was recovering. I lucked out and did not have to do the plumbing repairs! The ex I am OK with had taken pain killers for the kidney stones and stopped in since he was feeling good. Damn near gave me a heart attack coming in. He could not go in to work as he was on the pain killers and they don't go together, high risk job. But he saw I felt like crap and wasn't wanting to move and he "repaid" hubs favor by doing the repairs. So the well works again yeah!
Family worked as a team with my brainy teen boy going through the code of conduct and the protocols in the school's rule book in regards to every detail he could pull as a violation to the tiniest detail (his sis should appreciate that trait he has being so anal now LOL). I cannot sit still and sort through it myself. Sat with my daughter to pull every tiny detail lastnight until I could do it no more with us writing it down and her crying as I asked her every insignifigant detail, told her if a fly farted she needs to tell me and me telling her this was in no way her fault. Will go back at it tomorrow.
She was afraid of telling me she cussed at him, I said you think you invented cussing? And I am so brain dead to not know a teen does it??? Puhleeezzz... Hubs talked to his dad how to approach the principal as my father in law is a high school principal. So we are getting our ducks all in a row to nail the living shit out of them. Teen girl was confused as what goes on in threapy is private without my knowing. I told her all her bitching about me is. But when it comes to this and it comes to this level she has to tell me period so I could handle it. Does not mean she has to tell me a damn thing about other shit in therapy.
Pretty sore but considering I don't do much to a flying blind rage and can't recall all of... it happens.
Just going to try and finish recovering and getting this out and arranged so no body has wiggle room. Try to keep grounding myself this weekend and meditating and calm so I don't blow all over the office.
This zero tolerance policy now in place is BS as it seems kids who do not follow rules get looked over a lot until another stands up for them self. Then they both go down with tickets for us to pay and suspension too. Since she did not do anything except tattle it was blown off.
3 AM and a breaking news report? Saddam found guilty sentenced to hanging... hope shit does not hit the fan too hard for all our boys. |