Hope, I am glad that this has helped you break down a barrier within your relationship. Understanding one another is the key to a solid relationship. Its all about mutual understanding and really knowing one another at great depth, when to press, when to backoff.

Lets just say, that I am going to write a lot of things here about military as a priority soon enough, because there are alot of military folks who browse this forum, though they struggle in the same areas I did, getting past their own pride from military training. Once that is gotten past and understood, they can just become themselves, jump in here and get into healing as the civilian they now are.