Oh Jen,

You don't have to hang around your hubby at lunch. I used to eat mine with Anthony sometimes but most of the time with the girls. It would really be good for you to meet some other local support, trust me they know exactly where you are coming from. This course is not just about your husband!! There were plenty of times that Anthony ticked me off while he was on the course, its all real scary for them even though they won't admit it. What about what you need?

Anyhow, that's my bent on it - the spouses day sounds like a really good idea!! Take care of you.