Hi Jods I can understand putting on the 'public face' thats where I think we fall into a false sense of security that they act different around other people. I said to the spouses the other day I feel if we went to a session as a couple it just wouldnt be right as he acts differently when I am around he just cant seem to open up with me. He says that he thinks it would upset me to much to talk about his traumas to me.
Watch that Ebay!! Jen