First let me say that Batgirl I'm praying for you, and for those of your family that you've lost, including your father, who was a good man, who went into the Military and many many men do daily, and were taught to kill with no remorse, but what the Military tells them doesn't add up in the end because those who have seen and done things that are unspeakable, but they were ordered to do, will ALWAYS feel the pain and remember those incidences.
You keep on talking to us and to Anthony and you will understand, and I am understanding more reading the things that he has opened up about to you, about soldiers.
To Anthony:
This is what bothers me the most, this quote:
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90% of therapists and shrinks are idiots, with nothing more than book smarts as their knowledge base, no real world experience or commonsense.
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Because my friend, it's so true, it's frighteningly true. I myself studied psychology in college, and now that I'm faced with my lover having PTSD I have to dig around in what I still have left of what I know from studying all those nights a very long time ago. And it just doesn't do the job, I wasn't there where he was, I didn't see the things that he did, and I never will ever do the things that he was ordered to do. What a frustration.