I say it all depends on how abusive he really is to you. Name calling is most definitely abusive, but was it a one time thing, or a pattern of name calling, and more? I would take the time and spend a good deal of time reflecting on this. I do believe God does intervene in peoples' lives and can work miracles, so I would definitely take this to God and your pastor at your church.

I respect your opinions on this, Anthony, unfortunately I disagree on two points. God's intervention (aforementioned) and with regard to "love". A truly abusive person is not capable of real love, because the only thing an abusive person can "love" is themselves and their own desire for power and control. They use the word "love" as a means of leverage to keep their victim there for their own personal punching bag (physically and emotionally). It's all part and parcel to the "Cycle of Violence" wheel.. A typical behavioural pattern that always includes a "loving" phase as a means of keeping their victim emotionally hostage. It's quite effective. So because of this, Mum, I encourage you to take love out of the equation altogether if he is indeed abusive beyond a one time name calling session and definitely seek counsel with the leadership of your church, and pray... Lots and lots of prayer for God's guidance in this.

I am in the same boat as you are at the moment, however, mine has a long history of abuse against me (physical and emotional)... Take a deep breath, try not to make any rash decisions, explore all options and keep your chin up =) You are most definitely not alone *hugs*