To Veiled,

Thanks, you talk a lot of sense.

The problem with household chores is confusion, a blur, not nowing where to start. Making a bed for example, if it is fairly neat already then no problem, but, if its all over the place she just cant figure it out with out a pointer card that has instructions which she follows one step at a time.

Thanks for the advice on shrinks and stuff, I really do need to diagnose my wife so we can then start planning some kind of future.


thanks again
steve
uk