Oh, that aspect of doing them... again normal, sorry. We can get so overwhelmed at the most trivial things that were once something we never thought about and just did. Until you end up with PTSD uncontrolled you never knew what you took for granted. Once it is controlled these things start to come back together. But your situation is very unique and I hope y'all get to the bottom of it so she can be treated and start healing. Please keep us posted of any outcomes and any questions you have feel free to ask.

And do not forget the spouses' forum. We cannot function as easily as we learn to do without their support and they are there to support each other and their normal challenges of trying to deal with us! May prove useful to you.