I don't like any hitting of anybody, regardless of gender. However in this instance I think this woman really provoked you! If the police had been around to see it, especially the military police, she would have been charged with assault. Maybe even sexual harrassment. If the tables were turned and she was the man and you were the woman, she would have gone to jail, no question. And if a guy was making advances like that on me, I wouldn't hesitate to hit him! Actually I really admire your restraint, I'm not sure I would have controlled myself much in that circumstance.

I think some women are real bitches and take advantage of the "rule" that a man is not supposed to hit a woman... sounds like this woman was one of those. I wouldn't have said sorry, either. I'm getting angry just thinking about it lol. I don't really think you did anything wrong.