Hi Jen

Good luck with the session today.
The way I think of this with my hubby is I'm "dating" & getting to know a new man. Although we have a past together it's never going to be the way it was, so I've got to get to know this new man that is in my hubby's skin.
Let's face it, we aren't the same either so they have to get use to the new version of what we've become as a result of dealing with this.
Maybe another trip away could be good for you both-minus the speeding fine!