I don't see a problem. Contructive insight, whether from a male or female is helpful. Get so caught up in the stuff in my own head that sometimes all I can see is the tunnel... not the light at the end of it. Another perspective helps.
It came as a huge surprise to me that, after everything I have been through, the one who "gets it" the one I can say anything to is a guy. Without his insight, understanding, listening ability and hugs (he was the first person to hug me when I cried....EVER) I would be curled up in a ball in my bedroom.
Bottom line. You don't have to be a woman to care.

Jet