Jet summed it up nice, "you don't have to be a woman to care"

Actually in my diary, before I shoved it in private, I had asked a question as I was working through my thoughts and issues and it just popped out of my cyber "mouth". I have mulipule traumas and rapes. My question may have not been able to answer because it was not touched, but it was directed at guys as it in no way could have been answered by a female at all.

I have not had any female ask me near as hard hitting questions as far as my trauma, kind of a more understanding except my female shrink who asked very blunt questions to get the diagnosis. My weekly doc was a man, Anthony a guy... 2 key people in helping me. If men kept out of it I would be so much worse than I am now.

Also, it is made more than clear addressing the PTSD is going to hurt and make you uncomfortable as we heal from our traumas. It is a simple fact. Your help and input would much needed since you have seen a lot of rape survivors...

You seem so concerned for our feelings in the matter I doubt you would say anything that would push over the edge, we already have been any way!