Andrea hi, tig hi, Im in the same boat as you tig not even dating - he managed and hour with me on Friday to talk about practical stuff and hes just been here but went through the house to the garden to fix the tub and back out like a tornado!!!!!

I feel as if I have some kind of deadly contagious disease he cant get away from me fast enough. Asked him to read some stuff on PTSD and he told me it is medical munbo jumbo!!! and he might if he gets time. gave him a small book on how to manage life work balance "How to sweat the small stuff" he took it so that is an ordinary self help book for any male hope he doesnt throw it out ofthe car window as he drives to his rented accomodation!!?

All my friends feel sorry for me and this is distresssing my 80 year old mum who loves him vey much but although I miss caring for him not having him here I had to have him leave he would have killed us all with his behavior.
How long this can go on I dont know- We'll get to christmas and see what thenew year brings always hoping - take care of yourselves and we can take care of them thanks went on a bit sorry.....