Hi tig - glad Ive found you - but
I would hate to influence you all relationships are different so you know what your up against.......

Me Ive suffered humiliation all because he cant communicate ...... I thought he wouldnt but i think it is really because he cant .... I feel sorry about my reaction to his behaviour but it is human nature to defend one's self and the lioness in me arose to protect my children..... against their father ... mad isnt it.

Ive tried to apologise and tell him i was so frustrated with his persona but he now looks at me like something from under his shoe ........ such a strange face full of hatred and yet he says he could never ever hate me.....vocals and behaviour just do nottttttt match thats what got me all over the place.


couldnt even trust my own intuition. lost all my self confidence and most casual friends .... I am off sick from my job where I was badly verbally abused by a student so can understand stress and flight fright syndrome but the worst thing is the feeling of hopelessness cannot help him....



I'm sure his sister feels I am telling lies as she sees the normal gentle quiet side of him. SO she doesnt think he needs the help i do. They are all accepting the fact he needs a bit of space cause weve had an argument oh my god how wrong people can get things if thy dont understand ironic I suppose thats us spouses as well.....
look forward to hearing your reply take care