Hi Ladies :)
wish i could have joined in this conversation earlier.... Tig+Hannah, i just wanted to say that i guess i am ashamed. Like you, me and my husband
are living like nothing but roomates :( but i guess i said "dating" because it makes me feel better :( But yes, it is horrible, and hard to put up with after a while. One of you said you have been living this way for about 9months..... we are going on about 5 or 6months like this.
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I'm blowing things out of proportion, that I expect too much; but it's very hard to go from a loving, affectionate relationship to just being housemates.
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I get told all the time that i make a big deal about everything... and that i expect too much...but i dont understand how he see's the way we are living as "ok" or "normal" even.... I tell my hubby i dont feel married sometimes, that i could live the way i do now by myself somewhere else... he, on the other side see's it the opposite.... dont know if i am making sense, but he sees nothing wrong with the way he is and the way we interact :(
I dont get it :( I ask him how long this will last, because its him not me and he has no idea...what the heck are we supposed to do in the meantime in order to stay sane??? :(