hi - Ladies just to share with you that in calmer moments - I said I was sorry and that perhaps "I expected too much from him" he replied "no you deserve everything" so I was even more confused by that. It has only just struck me that on his "departure" he apologised to our son and said " I cannot give your mother what she wants" !!!????
So perhaps he is aware that something is amiss - he justs wants time so I am in Gods hands praying for patience and his return - he is so determined and focussed on him at the moment. Defensive and focussed on his work, of course I could be totally wrong and he has just had enough of me but thats me being negative!!