well, first posting here you need to not be senisitive (or try hard) to what others say. Being in the same boat we kind of just say whay we think and it is not always sensitive. But again remember all responding are going through the same.

Everything you mention is very normal. The part of speaking with her is normal for those even without PTSD.

I have had a stressful night so I cannot say much of use, but I want you to know you have not said anything we don't all deal with... We do have better days with time and some days are ehh... you just don't want to talk about.