Anon, every single thing you have stated here is perfectly normal with trauma. Not one thing is left field as such. Anon, trauma is like a thorn in your arse, in that if you leave it their, it hurts. If you pull it out, it hurts more, but by pulling it out, the pain goes away eventually. You will never forget the pain or the thorn, but the pain itself has subsided. Think about what your doing here as slowly pulling that thorn out of your backside.
Now, lets get to the guts of the issue anon.
- What age where you when the accident occurred?
- Who was driving?
- How did the accident occur?
- Where you wearing seatbelts?
- What speed did the accident occur?
- What where the weather conditions the accident occurred?
- Was there other vehicles / people killed or injured / involved?
- How did you get out of the car?
- How did you get your girlfriend out of the car?
- What did your girlfriend die off exactly?
- Have you had an MRI for your head trauma?
- If so, what where the results?
- Did you attend your girlfriends funeral?
- Do you now have your license?
I have lots more to ask, but lets deal with the above first.