First you rest up, hon! Now I am tickeled shitless your uncle is being so active in understanding and learning. And now you have your aunt there. You have a lot on your side.

Deployment is hard. I cannot even say... My BIL retires in a couple years but he keeps being sent to Korea and the sand box. It is scary to think they may come home like us. I know you are hurting about it, you cannot help it. But aside from all that he posted here. Welcome Jim.

Remember they are not putting up with you, they are loving you. And what seems like a horrible fight in our minds is not the same to others (though we do get a lil' over board) We can have a habit of blowing things out of proportion.

You get some rest and sorry about y'alls healthcare system... I would be in bad shape with that. I think I am going to have to just rebuild retirement I spent. And compared to y'all that is a "just"! You get some rest and try to enjoy the help. I am amazed with it really.