Thanks another bit of sense about his non sense!!!!!! Yes
I can see that will try to be feminine wily without leting him see I am being manipulative..... bit of a breakthrough today ...... hes still not interested in Christmas he says he has bigger things on his mind ... I dared to ask what ...expecting him to say his job and lo and behold he said this separation........ so he is at last thinking about this ... could go either way


But will continue to be firm and logical that seems to stick with him just the facts no longwinded emotional stuff... thanks guys you are helping me loads ...God forbid I turn into an alien tho I like warm and cosy and sensitivity......more strength God please ..... am doing a good deed a day for someone so some good is coming of this mayhem keep up the good work