I do not have the right to go to counselling with him unless he allows me to do so. We are separated and as he puts it "what he does with his life now is none of my business". I guess anything he does now, he does not have to feel guilty as much for, since I am no longer living with him and he is actively according to him "getting a divorce". Of course, I do not have any papers to that effect yet, but he promises that these are coming. I am just so tired of this crap.....

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