I think you guys are right about giving the "space" thing. It is hard for me as I am impatient too and about to go through a "divorce" according to my husband, but I am backing off and he does not like this either. He just keeps saying that I do miss him, but he does not miss me. Oh well, whatever. He told me today that I am probably the best thing that has ever happened to him and he is just too "stupid" to understand it. What is it with this understanding thing? I mean I understood when I took my vows that I loved my husband and yes, there would be trying times, but you work on them, you don't tuck tail and run and be a coward and that you stick it out together, but he says he would have been dean in 2 years if we had stayed together. I don't know how he knows this, but I forgot, oh yes, his famous saying that "I know everything and if I don't know it, it ain't worth knowing anyway". This is the kind of crap he has always told me and now thinks he can just walk away after 17 years of marriage and say "I am so sorry that I ruined the last 17 years of your life. I thought I loved you, but subconsciously did not and now I am so sorry about this". What kind of crap is that? It just ain't that easy.

thanks for letting me vent and I hope you guys have a better day than me today. I just wish for a day when I can get up and not worry about this mess that I am in right now. I want to be happy and laugh again, really laugh, not just put on a laugh in front of him to look happy to hide the pain that I am going through....

dazed :crybaby: