Dazed,
I agree with veiled... your husband seems to be alot of talk.. He wants a divorce?! its been long enough and he is putting you through hell so give him one. This is hurting you greatly and its sad to see that. Do better for yourself and dont play along with him anymore... There is only so much you can do, and put up with...your husband is taking advantage of that, its his only control it seems and its not right.