About "giving him space"-- If I tell him "I'm going to watch tv in the bedroom to give you some space," he says "Thank you." But if I just go in there & watch tv for the SAME REASON, he gets all upset & chews me out, criticizes me for "spending too much time watching tv in there & isolating myself..." Like I want to watch Nascar & other "guy" tv shows! Ughhh!! Even when I'm giving him what he wants I'm doing the wrong thing! Help!!!