As tig said Josh... well said by the way tig. Shit, if this thread is about judgeing character, then you may as well write me off from just what I have posted in it already. Its not about that mate, its about ridding some of this shit from us, not about judgeing who we where. Our past contributes to who we are today, absolutely, but when we learn from our past mistakes, it often makes us a better person for making those mistakes. Those that don't learn, thats the worrysome one's, though people can change if they really want too... some do, some don't... you see lots of here who change because of our pasts, you, me... lots of us.