I am only posting here because hubs read but did not post, his response was to me... He knows why I act bitchy now. Before I showed him this thread I was stressing over getting to my new home, I asked have you seen Anthony's cup? I took two cups to the sink and gave him a basic run down, said here is my life OK???? Stomped off.

But as usual Anthony puts it in a way better perspective and nicely. Does it help his understanding yes... How hubs acts no.

But understanding is a step. It does what I have read help push me to get up and shower and make up, put on jewelery... That is a lot now. I pick and choose what I can do in a day. Today I got up at 4 PM for the day and FORCED myself to do the good stress, all I had. Trying to deal with bad stress over toddler wore my cross to the nativity and she took it off at grandparents, hubs put in pocket... now MIA. I am very upset and well it is little to most or all but it has left me "stuck". I am not upset with the baby, but hubs. Yeah, I hope it helps those who deal with us.