Sorry for taking so long Jim... as you know, I have not been well myself.

You feel as though you are a little unappreciated, depreciated even at present within your life, likely due to enormous stress upon you. You are a trusting person that is aware of your problems relating to sexual intimacy. You like to take your time and enjoy the moment. You have a high self esteem, though are highly emotional regarding your support systems, whether past or present, and are aware of any flaws within these systems. You highly value committed relationships, are spiritual in nature, though present commitment towards someone, or something, other than your partner.

Ok, I have left out the obstacle above, for discussion below, however; pretty normal for someone who has not really suffered or endured abnormal trauma within their life. Pretty good overall. You’re strong, spiritual, under some stress at present, but nothing overtly nasty in the above.

Jim, your obstacle is another issue though. Now this likely has to do with you feeling unappreciated, yet feeling you’re between a rock and hard place, most likely due to what your brother did to his family, and himself. You believe you can handle these situations, yet you know the problem is consuming you emotionally and that danger exists on decisions you currently make, likely to do with Evie.

Jim, how much have you discussed your families deaths? Your father and two brothers! You believe your father wants you to be the rock, to keep the entire family going, to solve all their problems possibly and keep things together. Did he say this too you? Your brother would want you to look after his son, not a great stressor there I believe. Your other brother though, you feel he is pulling the family apart from what he has done. Why?