Wayne.. remember what I said about my incognito husband? I told him about you.. I want him to talk to you, I really think you could help each other.. there are such similarities, its uncanny.. He's at work now.. but he'll get here as soon as he can. (I'm hopeful too that it helps you both, I feel like I'm so screwed up, I dont know what to do for him) Thanks for being here.. :biggrin: