I know exactly what you mean Jim. I had it straight from bob, and let me say, that is scary when you have no prior knowledge of what to expect. We have no control over the outcome of what comes back to us basically, and the human mind doesn't like not having control. You have done great though Jim, and more importantly, I like what you did with Evie at that support group... well done, your education is helping her and others, being those at the support group, merely by showing them at the same time, one persons biased opinions are not always the best information to base your knowledge. People must know all sides of arguments, all facts, and be allowed to determine their own opinions, just as you have. Well done mate.