Hi Witsend... and welcome to the forum. My wife Kerrie-Ann is probably the best person to answer this for you, considering I have PTSD myself. I must say though, your going to have your hands full. I think your fiancee is really going to need you, to just be their, love her, and let her work things out for herself, hopefully the in the best way.

I'm quite surprised that some off us are even still around, considering the awe of certain aspects off our lives. Your fiancee has certainly had brutal actions against her, which I'm sure any decent person would never wish upon another. Hang in there, and just love her, thats all I could say really, as being male myself, I don't know how it feels, but I do know what she is going through in every aspect of her PTSD symptoms, actions and general livelihood. Its not going to be pretty....