kerrie-ann and anthony,

Thanks a bunch, your words help calm my nerves a bit. I wasn't sure if all i was doing was right or not, but i guess it is :/ As for her couneling and medications, she was going to counseling but never found one she felt comfortable with, and the medications helped a bit, but made her other physical ailments worsen, so she stopped taking them as well. I wanted to bring up the thought of her going to find other counselors or groups and possibly me attending as well, but i have no idea how to bring it up. I know now isn't the time, but later in the year i will. Any suggestions on how? Just catch her in a really good talkative mood? Thank you again for your support, i really felt like i was sitting in a dark room watching life going on on the other side and couldn't do anything. Now i know i'm there just ....still can't do much! I think i'm your avg guy, so patience and the ability to let things go and have others work them out are a couple of my weakest traits, so i may be back quite often to keep my head straight.
I think i'm starting to learn the difference between her PTSD and "pain in the ass" naturethough. So i havn't hit any triggers lately, and as for the gaming, that's very comforting because though i played alot and still do occasionally, it's a different feeling for me when i play. Anyways, I guess time, patience, and love are my route,huh? Thanks again, see you next time.