She wants me to bring him into counseling too. Even gets pushy about it. He won't do it for himself, he certainly won't do it for me. She also gives me the indication that if I don't like how he's treating me than I should just leave him. I don't want to leave him. I went there to gain my own strength and instead I feel like she's asking me to do things I have no strength to do. I feel more zapped than when I went in to begin with. Today is bad. I asked Hubby to just stop doing one thing to me that I feel is verbally abusive and he won't stop. Says he can't. He says I am to judge him by his actions and not his words.