Bec, I've seen you on the webcam in MSN chat, and your hair looked auburn there. I think it's true that your hair probably looked darker in the other chat because of lighting. The picture quality on most cams isn't that great either.

Besides... I personally would never make a comment like that to someone I hadn't physically met. If I look at you in chat and your hair didn't look red, I would think, okay it's the lighting, I wouldn't think you were lying. Either way I would likely keep it to myself. It's rude, arguing with someone over such a trivial matter. The person who said that to you is rude.