Don't you see...he hears what he says already and doesn't care. I am the one who is to adjust and deal with it. Thank God he is not like this all the time but when he is ....I simply must conform or to hell with me. At least that's how I feel today. It has been a month of hurtful behavior this time around..longest ever. I am just weakened to the point of ...not sure what I want of can do at this point.