so you have both decided to go your seperate ways?! or is it you just saying that? or that wants that or her??? i dont undertsand... this had to have been going on for a while... i know you guys didnt wake up one morning and decided you didnt want to be marriage to each other anymore :( its so sad... and it makes me think...you and Kerrie-Ann always spoke of how hard things would get and that support and undertsand was so important and it almost seemed like you guys had all that... and now this happens..... i guess i am a bit confused..... why give up :( i am not asking questions here.... i would just hate to be in this situation specially with the new baby :(