Thank you anthony. I certainly hope it keeps going on this path, but i know it wont all the time, but i'll stick with her. It's been a long last few months and i'm sure i'll be running into alot more down the road. Honestly though, even with things getting better for the time being, i'm still so frustrated at the fact that there's so many things that i would like to talk to her about and feel we need to talk about and adress, but i know she doesn't want to deal with them. I know i have it in me to wait, but i was wondering if you had any suggestions that might help? How have you two gotten through everything? With help i'm sure, but she's not had much luck with them so i dont think she'll even give that a shot again just yet. Anyway, gonna go for now, was a long day and it's bed time! lol. :)