Absolutely veiled. Marriage is difficult, even at the best of times. Seems many people simply do not want to make the necessary sacrifices and compromises. If people worked as hard on their marriages as they do on planning big elaborate weddings, there would be far fewer divorces I believe. I don't know about others, but my marriage vows included "for better or for worse" and "in sickness and in health". That about says it all in my mind.

It would be lovely to have your husband's input.