Not to change the subject but something wierd happened just a bit ago. So, I am talking with my Mom on the phone and she tells me that her and my good sister went and got haircuts today and did some shopping. I said, "that is nice". Then she says, "You know that shelter out on War*&% Road, I said, "yeah" then she said that her and my sister went there and donated Dog food and Cat food today. I said, "Ma, you know that place holds some very bad memories for me"? She told me yes she knew that and she admitted that for years she would take a different route when travelling so she would not have to pass there, the memory was disturbing for her too. The discussion then changed course, but I have not discussed nor thought of that place in so long, and for me to bare my soul to this forum about how much it altered my emotions as a child and for her to mention it within days of me baring how upset it made me is really odd. Makes you wonder how thick the bond can be. You have to understand, this happened about 30 years ago. Too much for coincidence, "twighlight zone music commences". Very perplexing to me.