Oh my such compliments... I was near about brought to tears again! Thank you Anthony, bec, jods. It really is appreciated, and makes all my struggles seem worthwhile!

I only read about Jim's guilt now - had no idea. I knew he was out of sorts, but he doesn't always tell me things right away. Then of course when Evie became quite ill late last night (she is fine now, no worries), he was off to the hospital, and spent the whole night there, despite our protests. In any event, I agree my husband shouldn't be so hard on himself, thank you for telling him that bec. I likely should explain however. Jim has always felt especially attached to Evie, since the day she was born really. Very overprotective. He has a soft spot for her and gets very emotional about her. If he thinks he's done something to harm her, he feels especially bad, no matter how small it is. But you are absolutely right, she's fine, a little shook up by the rowdy boys but none the worse for wear.