Marilyn, it's interesting you speak about doves and eagles, as we have scads of doves near our home. They are certainly not a welcome creature. They are very messy, poo all over our window sills constantly, and wake us up in the early morning with their incessant cooing. Similar to pigeons really. I agree with you entirely, I would much rather be a grand bird such as an eagle (we have those round our place as well). Your analogy about yourself and your mother is very touching.