Congrats on your Anniversary!!!!! You are both committed!!!! I have noticed with myself when I've been doing alot my body wears down [remember that our bodies have been drastically changed by our Trauma] Often when the mind gets overloaded our bodies are more suseptible to illness...The body was only built to handle so much Trauma...at least in my case that means any STRESS---which can be interpreted by the body as more Trauma...very wearing!!!!! I know it may be hard...but take more time for yourself this weekend...that can be several mini-breaks....For me that means taking 15 min. ...put on some classical music and let my mind "rest" as it floats among the notes...I have found you to be a very kind and concerned person....please treat yourself gently!!!!
PEACE ...wildfirewildone