Thanks anthony, i didn't think much about putting to much at once. I've got tons of papers with scribbles and paragraphs on them that i was going to refine, so i'll do that but a little at a time. Actually she knows now that i'll be writing and she was planning on doing the same. Had a big fight the other night and in the aftermath she mentioned she was going to have written me what we had argued about and more, so i confessed to wanting to do the same, so we decided to pass notes :) So, thanks for your advice as i was going to have just made a huge letter, but i'll change it now to a bunch of little ones. Take care!