Well, she called me again so I know she is speaking with people :) I suggested the responsibility of a horse there. I know she may not be physically able to shovel the stall, or pick the hooves, and would need help saddling, but basics I think she could do like grooming and feeding and nice strolls. It will help with independence having responsibility and you are never to quick to turn your back on such big beautiful eyes a horse has.

Driving... Well, I am a bit freaked by it too so I cannot really give advice except just do it daily once you start so not have the fear wash over you again like it has done me.