Hi desert4now,
Welcome to the forum. I am glad you got out of the first marriage, as I used to be pretty bad in that arena myself when uncontrolled PTSD had hold of me. I can understand you wanting to get away.
What is happening to your husband is surely not going to be pretty, but the anger and hostility within him is most likely that emotions and thoughts are happening, all of which he feels he has no control over, or understanding.
He doesn't want to bring you down as such, he just doesn't understand what is happening to him, nor what to do about it. Maybe you should get him on here and have a chat to me... as I am a veteran also with the Australian Army, so I can relate. |