true but hard to do, at least for me. It is funny, someone (my pastor and my therapist said that to me this last week. I am just not there yet, I can say out loud, I didn't ask to be raped but do I feel responsible, yes I do. Why couldn't I get away, why didn't i yell more, why did I freeze and why did I hide it and never tell anyone. I feel I helped create this PTSD monster.