Hello Anthony,

He doesn't know that I am even checking into this. I'm afraid he would take it the wrong way. He really is a great guy and I have no intention (at this point) to leave, but having been through one relationship that was dangerous for me...I guess it makes me overly sensitive maybe??? We have been under lots of stress and money is tight. We are moving so that means new jobs, new schools, new everything. This is our third move in a year and a half. I unnderstand his stress. I just don't want to be the target. So should I just remove myself from the situation when he gets verbally abusive? Do I stay and take it and let him know I'm not a doormat? I don't know how to respond to him sometimes. I love him so much and truly want to do the right thing.