Anthony & NML,
Thank you Anthony for your words. Seeing things from the sufferers perspective is good for me. I will not give up on him so I might have to put my kicking boots on...tactfully of course.

NML....yes, the thought has crossed my mind on several occasions that I might be suffering myself. One symptom of PTSD I wish I had was to not feel anything because sometimes I feel everything and it hurts and it is overwhelming.

Thank you for letting me talk here. I feel better. Maybe I'm not crazy after all.