Everyone is tippy toeing and I may piss you off but on this I do not care. First off Bec is off on her idea of sentencing here. Big time. Guys get caught WITH a kid normally get 5 years probation first time (I had a hub who is a detective now and did way too many backgrounds). Second PTSD and the like aside if you had spy ware **** that. I will be blunt and say if you know of something wrong then you are part of the problem by not standing up. PTSD is not an excuse. It does not excuse crimes nor a blind eye of yours. You need to turn your computer over to the police and those who REALLY know how to pull it apart and not contribute by ignoring. My first reaction would most likely be an axe to my desk - lap top (I still have temper issues)... But the wise moral choice would be to the local PD or the FBI (if U.S.). If you are not part of the solution you are part of the ... You figure it out. Sorry, I will not dress this up by any means to spare feelings.

I just got to this post and it left me ill and shaking. Do the right thing. Not what makes everyone comfortable and this is not something you can cover your eyes and it will go away. Again having PTSD is NOT an excuse. How many piles of shit need to accumulate in the cat box before it stinks so bad you need to take it out???

ETA - You can delete and so can he until the cows come home, the police can recover anything. Nothing is ever really deleted.