I noticed you put a time limit of two years on this healing process. My husband has been gone since September and seems some better, will at least see our son now, but still just acts like he wants to lay around in self-pity all the time. I really hope things get better for him. My son and I on the other hand although we miss him, are moving on in our lives and actually can smile on a daily basis and find something to be happy about and thank God for. We thank him for his blessings he has bestowed on us and get out and do things, maybe little things, but things just the same to get us through this mess a little bit easier.

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