Yes, my son has been labeled and I have been told to just "spank" him and he will put his hands over his head in certain situations and do like you said. His dad just does not want to accept all of this and he has left us back in September and I know the man actually loves us, but is acting so weird and just has the "don't care" attitude and he before they had him on Lexapro was not that way at all and was a totally devoted father and husband, so I am so at a loss to know what is going on with him, but with my child, we are going to go to camp this summer and he got a scholarship for this which helped me out as I am about tapped out for money until the divorce is settled and may lose everything I have. I have a lawyer, but he does not see much hope for some reason and I am about ready to switch lawyers, but I have already invested about all the money I have in this one, so really don't know what to do. My little boy is doing better on meds and if they would correctly diagnose my husband with adult asperger's and give him the correct meds, I believe he would be better off.

Thanks for talking to me.

God bless!

dazed